Write him a love letter and take him out on a date - just like life before kids.

Check out what you might like to do together - a course or something that is of interest to both of you.

Go to the garden shop and buy plants and dig in the dirt together

Choose a book and read it together - aloud in turns in bed before you turn out the lights  - or leave them on whatever.

Find a new set of walking trails and head off together with a thermos and camera

These are the things I would do - don't know what you are into Abley - but it can be very simple things just about being together

UM xx

Sorry - a friend of mine uses the term "time to connect" or after a period, even just hours away from each other "time to re-connect" - this is key. Time spent makes people feel valued - spbd

Hi there, is there something that you are your partner both wished you could have done together like dance lessons or a language course. Or how about discovering a city or place together that neither of you have been to, walk down roads whithout following a map to see what you would find.

Reading all of these posts makes me want to try some of them out! Good luck Mooge