Dear Hippichic, Your friends probably were talking about you - and be honest with yourself - how many times have you talked about them.  We all talk about our friends and just occasionally it might not be the kindest thing we have said about them - but as you say, none of us is perfect.

I wouldn't worry about it too much - take a look at SeekerEmerald's brick and have confidence - be The Broccolli. Know that you are a decent person and smile at your friends next time, they will think more of you. 

Hi Hippichick,

I personally think your friends are pretty weak, I do agree with Muse in that we do talk about our friends, I mean they play a part in our everyday lives but id like to think that I would not have the scenario you just explinied happen to me.  I guess if I did hear 2 friends saying that kind of a thing, I would probably ask them whats up.  My friends know im a very open person, I dont hide my general feelings about them so would not expect it back.

I once received a email that someone I work with accidently sent to me instead of another guy and it said something like "When Katherine moves closer to hear we will have to stop talking about them".  It was a guy I had known for several years so I walked up to him and said "mate, if you have a problem with me, you should really tell me, ill probably not really care because im not going to change my persona to please an individual but at least say something if you have a problem"  He did get embarrassed and although there is little baneter that goes on here, I dont take notice of it because if people want to talk about me then good for them.