We've been friends our whole lives, together a couple of years. We lost our virginity to each other. He's stood by me throughout miscarriage, depression, and me being an absolute b*tch to him. At my lowest, he stopped me from committing suicide, and I honestly believe he saved my life.

But despite all of this, I don't believe him when he tells me that he loves me, that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

Hi Cocktailwaitress, I am pleased you felt able to share your doubts and problem on here. You must have asked yourself a thousand times why you dont believe him. It sounds however that he needs you. Perhaps try asking yourself why on that one and you may find you have much more to offer than you think.

Take Care

summer76

If someone has lived through all of that with you then you must mean a huge amount to him. I mean does he strike you as someone who would say he loved someone when he didn't? And i suppose if he says he loves you he means all of you which by default means all that you have lived through together.