On the suggestion of a wall friend, I'm going to take my brick and see what others have to say about this topic.

 So, tell me .... What do you do with the memories you were holding tight to, when you find out those memories are littered with lies???

I guess I have just learned, that my own actions are all I can control. Those loving memories, now turned bittersweet ... I'm slowly letting them go. It was a strange/complicated relationship. One that is/has taken some time to sort through and will be a bit longer in the sorting phase. I am determined that the memories will not affect my future. Because there is one memory that she can not destroy ... and that is the amazing feeling that I had when I realized my love for two people could actually be real.

Maybe I'm lucky, but my fondest memories are, as far as I know, some of the most honest moments of my life - what a shame I didn't know that at the time.

Blame myself for not being able to see through the situation to see the lies.  Then try to work out if I was the one who was not being watchful and too trusting.  I withdraw from others and come out after I can work out my role in allowing the to happen.

No one wants to destroy your memories, ladybug.  Do you not think she has them too?

That is so not true.  I think of you every single day.  And they are separate memories then thinking of him.  I promise you that with every piece of me.  I am glad we have the memories, at least.