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• 06/12/2007 @ 08:22 roze said

  

  I am so sorry - you can talk to the community here to help ease the pain. I think many of us have had our hearts broken. I found and lost someone who touched my soul this year. It hurt like hell - still does some days - but i have some good memories too!

• 12/12/2007 @ 11:00 7vicar said

  

  how awful, please share if you can - there are people here who might help ease the pain, as roze said.

• 24/01/2008 @ 19:21 younger said

  

  Hi there - over a month on, how are you doing?

• 25/01/2008 @ 12:54 Anonymous said

  

  Wondering when the anger stage will start so that healing will begin. Stuck in depression right now. Don't have the energy for anger.

• 26/01/2008 @ 09:05 roze said

  

  I understand that. It is difficult to recapture your confidence and sense of self worth when your heart has been broken. What are you doing to help pass the days? Are you finding it is getting easier at all?

• 28/01/2008 @ 14:59 goddess_m said

  

  i understand exactly how you feel. I usually cry on my way home to what used to be "our" house.

• 28/01/2008 @ 15:27 roze said

  

  Hi goddess_m - have not seen you around before - welcome! It can be so very hard to move on!

• 29/01/2008 @ 14:03 Anonymous said

  

  Goddess_m, Wish we never had to feel this pain. They tell me it will get better. Just waiting for it to start.

  Roze, Thank you for your words. Spend my days going to work, coming home, sitting and staring. Don't have the energy for anything else. Don't have the energy to cry anymore. Barely have the energy to sign on to computer.

  Hoping it will get better soon.

• 29/01/2008 @ 17:24 roze said

  

  It does get better - leaves you very fragile for a long time - then almost without noticing it begins to ease. Let yourself feel what you feel - even if it is a lot of pain - emotion needs its space - both the highs and the lows. We are here and listening whenever you want to talk.

• 19/02/2008 @ 04:57 Allyuh15 said

  

  this made me tear up...i have had those horrible feelings before too and i hope that you are better and have found someone to hold your hand and tell you that everything will be back to normal...eventually

• 19/02/2008 @ 09:28 goddess_m said

  

  Actually, no I still have no one to hold my hand...no one to tell me it's going to be ok... no one to even notice (other than my job) if I live or died.

• 19/02/2008 @ 09:29 roze said

  

  i notice

• 19/02/2008 @ 09:36 younger said

  

  Hi goddess_m, it is going to be OK. you need to get back your 'self', your confidence and your smile. One day at a time. You will be OK.

• 19/02/2008 @ 11:22 goddess_m said

  

  Thanks roze & younger.....ur words mean a lot. I just wish I could believe them.

• 19/02/2008 @ 11:24 roze said

  

  still here and still noticing

• 19/02/2008 @ 11:34 younger said

  

  me too