This brick is just a fact really. What is a single woman over 40 with children, with a few extra pounds, a short hair style, no time for herself,working all day and into the night. These woman are every where, one foot in front of the other, doing what they must do for their young ones. There is no time for them, they feel invisible, unattractive, unloved. What is the point of trying. What do you have that is attractive to a man. Your time goes on work and children. You are tired. You don't have money for nice clothes or time for exercise. You are of no use. Obviously I am one of them. I want to know what men of all ages think of women in these circumstances. I want to know what men really want from a woman even if the truth is a cook, cleaner and something to show off, to be always be available to fulfil his needs. I am just so sick of feeling that for some reason I will never again be loved and appreciated for who I am.