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• 26/02/2008 @ 08:49 Wolfie said

  

  You sound like you didn't want to get divorced - did you have any choice in the matter?

  Love Wx

• 26/02/2008 @ 20:15 Wolfie said

  

  That sounds really hard and very recent. How is the rest of your life? Do you have a job that you like and a good place to live? Friends etc? Wx

• 26/02/2008 @ 20:36 lost46201 said

  

  Split was last August - he gave me the papers on what would've been my Mom's birthday, after asking me to "come home" from the friends house I'd been staying at - divorce was final last Monday. I have a job - pay barely makes ends meet, but they do meet... I have a house that I'm TRYING to turn into a home - right now it's a storage area of memories.... friends? not many - had spend most of my time at home.... But I'm trying to spread wings.... just hard once they've been "clipped"

• 26/02/2008 @ 20:57 Wolfie said

  

  OK so it's the start of your new life and you have so much healing to do.

  Focus on you and your new home. If you can get together a place that you feel strong in, you can give yourself a base from which to explore the new world that you find yourself in.

  You can be strong and don't channel your anger to your ex, you need all your energy for the new you..... strength honey and vision to see what you can be....

  Wx