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Be the broccoli! also see www.BeTheBroccoli.com

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Brick created on 13/12/2007 @ 17:57

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I learned something AWESOME earlier this year, and I am going to explain it here, first with broccoli.
If I can find 100 people who don't like broccoli, does that mean broccoli tastes bad? No, it is a reflection of the people I have found, not a reflection of broccoli. The broccoli is what it is, and the people do not decide what the broccoli is.
Let’s apply that to people, shall we? Whatever a given person thinks of you, is a reflection of who THAT person is, not who YOU are. Consider this, some people love you, some people hate you. What is the difference between someone that loves you, and someone that hates you? You are the same, so it MUST be the OTHER person that is different.
I am who I am, and nobody else can decide who I am. Nobody else can decide if I am worth liking, I decide if I am worth liking.
Here is something else that I find to be very interesting: If I decide that I am worth liking, more people will like me!

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  • 13/12/2007 @ 18:56 savage_patch_kid said
    savage_patch_kid

    I love it.

    Where did you gain your insight through, if I may ask?

  • 13/12/2007 @ 19:09 SeekerEmerald said
    SeekerEmerald

    I have been learning a LOT of things over the last 3 years, from a LOT of sources. some of it I come up with on my own, by putting together two or more thoughts or ideas, some of them are reworded from things that I learned, and some of totally my own ideas. (which I do NOT take credit for, I think ideas are simply information that is out there in the universe to be "heard" by anyone that will listen... Ok, that sounds a little "Woo Woo," or "out there," but I think you understand what I mean.) That particular bit of knowledge was something I came up with after combining "Morris Massey" with "Don Miguel Ruiz." a very strange combination, but with these ingredients, (Broccoli and people) I have created a tasty recipe!

  • 13/12/2007 @ 19:11 SeekerEmerald said
    SeekerEmerald

    I look forward to making more inspriational bricks as I come up with them, and write the text to go with them.

  • 14/12/2007 @ 04:04 SeekerEmerald said
    SeekerEmerald

    OK !!! BeTheBroccoli.com is now LIVE!!! I'll be adding more pages like that one as I come up with ideas, write them up, and find pictures to go with them.

  • 14/12/2007 @ 10:36 roze said
    roze

    Hi SeekerEmerald - i think you are new around here - welcome. i like your ideas and i look forward to hearing many more of them!

  • 19/01/2008 @ 12:39 muffin said
    muffin

    And rich in natural minerals to give the strength to be valued

  • 24/01/2008 @ 22:47 history_lover said
    history_lover

    hi seekerEmerald, im new here and this was amoung the 1st bricks i landed on. all i can say is WOW, that is really cool.

  • 28/01/2008 @ 13:01 meeee said
    meeee

    Be the broccoli ! (: I love it ! That just made me put a lot of things in a different perspective. Keeps up with the wonderful work ^^

  • 16/02/2008 @ 02:56 dramablu said
    dramablu

    Dude!! that is freaking amazing!! I never thought about that!

  • 09/04/2008 @ 06:10 kez said
    kez

    That is really inspiring. I have thought that myself often, but sometimes it is sooo hard to believe and live by, because people can be so judgmental at times and it makes you want to change to fit in with what they want. But I dont want to, I want to be who I am meant to be. Thank you for your wonderful and inspiring words, its made my day better.

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