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• 23/04/2008 @ 05:12 UMxx said

  

  Hey A,

  Are you sure that you are getting good advice or just one perspective from your "friend". It sounds like you are deeply hurt - maybe it just isn't true - you don't need to accept and believe what you have been told. The real answer is about who you are is in your heart. lots of (hugs) UM

• 23/04/2008 @ 20:03 Muse said

  

  How are you feeling today? If you reply to the brick, you will appear as anonymous. I hope you will. Muse x

• 23/04/2008 @ 20:51 Anonymous said

  

  Still not felt like this in 20+ years, I'd forgotten what it was like to plunge so low. It's strange because it takes over ones entire perspective. Nothing is unaffected. Reckon I look fairly normal on the outside... even cheerful. What an actress! Thank you Muse and UM... it really does help to be able to express this somewhere. The coincidence is that the 'event' that triggered this had nothing whatsoever to do with my becoming aware and part of BWWall. The friend had hit too close to home and hit too hard. She was not entirely wrong and remains my friend. It seems it is a great failing to be too kind, too tolerant, too patient.... bla bla bla I could go on forever

• 23/04/2008 @ 22:32 UMxx said

  

  I think the only time that being "too" of anything that is a gift to others could be a problem is if you don't get to receive the same back.

  I don't see how this could be a failing. Oh and I suspect there is quite a bit of Sarah Bernhardt in quite a lot of us on the Wall - it is my major way of dealing with life!.

  Good to see your post - is it just what your friend said that is in my mind now?
  UM xx

• 23/04/2008 @ 22:34 Wolfie said

  

  bla, bla, bla? We do that here... can you tell us about what your friend said and how it made you feel?

  Welcome.

  Wx