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I have a habit of just burying my head and getting on with work and forgetting about the pieces of me that miss out on attention. - Thanks Cate I think I finally have heard your words and not just read them.

So, in line with my new way of trying to make time for me, I am going to reduce the time I spend on a whole range of activities - I am not going to disappear from the Wall but I think I might just steal some time from here and use it to go outside and walk.

Please wish me well I will have lots of moments when I forget what I am trying to change to - and will probably lose my way but this is important learning for me - I don't what to spend all of my time on work and forget to work on me.

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  • 01/08/2008 @ 07:22 Swon said
    Swon

    Brave choice UM and I really do wish you every success. Stay resolute and ignore the little voice in your head telling you that you are being selfish for taking time out just for you.
    Maybe you don't get that but I know I do whenever I try for a bit of 'me time'.

    Good luck.

  • 01/08/2008 @ 09:02 UMxx said
    UMxx

    I have a full mormon tabernacle choir singing it at me - I wish they had a greater diversity in their performances - a bit old hat for me :) UM

  • 01/08/2008 @ 09:47 cate said
    cate

    Dearest UM , reading your post I felt a sense of relief . I think by addressing our needs in the present and not putting it off for some distant point in the future when it is 'convenient' we begin to take some sort of control so that we are able to rejuvenate or heal. I think we begin to understand what direction we should go when we try new things and find they benefit , reduce stress You will be in my thoughts , I will be hoping you will be able to recover some energy and strength . You've inspired me to get out and do some more walking :) Sending lots of hugs .. love you heaps , Cate

  • 01/08/2008 @ 10:27 UMxx said
    UMxx

    Well I hope I will be out there walking more too - and working less - that will be a challenge - and anytime I think that I am slipping - well I just start again. I have printed a copy of this out and have made it into a book mark for my work journal so hopefully that will help me make better decisions.

    Thanks Cate - you are a treasure. UM x

  • 01/08/2008 @ 10:33 Jomo said
    Jomo

    Slipping is fine. Just pick up again, don't worry.

    You cherish yourself a little, and you will see how you flourish, little Petunia...

  • 01/08/2008 @ 16:41 inspire said
    inspire

    I'm so glad you are going to take time for yourself, to focus on yourself and be with yourself. You have inspired me to go out and do that myself - to spend more "me" time. You've been telling me for a while, but I haven't listened well. I hope your walks go well. I'm sending hugs and a lot of love your way ...
    Love, Inspire xoxo

  • 01/08/2008 @ 17:37 harmony said
    harmony

    Sounds like you're paying some attention to what your intuition is telling you about needing more time for yourself. From the little I know of you I can tell that everyone else seems to be higher on your list of priopities that you do, so a bit of self attention is well timed.You are always there with kind words for everyone and you are a BWW genuine treasure.

    Enjoy your you time and I hope you wil inpsire me to lksiten to what I need a bit more than I do. Love Harmony

  • 05/08/2008 @ 10:38 Overseas said
    Overseas

    Hey UM,

    so how are you doing ? How is it going with your new decision ?

    ~~~

  • 05/08/2008 @ 11:57 UMxx said
    UMxx

    Ha on day 5 it is going great! I am feeling better just to be given the reason for trying. Yes I am letting some of the tidying slip - not the vacuuming though. Negotiated a new contract with the kids - lots of fine print and they are laminated on the kitchen cupboards - and the kids are trying harder to take more responsibility for their own stuff - (but they are so much like me and get caught up doing the work they like and it is really hard to get them to stop their homework some nights!) The dog is very impressed about the extra long walks. The next few weeks of working down my job will be easier than when I start the new one though so I am getting in practice now! love to all UMxx

  • 05/08/2008 @ 14:41 inspire said
    inspire

    I'm glad all is going well. It sounds like you've got things in order!
    Lots of love, Inspire xx

  • 05/08/2008 @ 22:17 Jomo said
    Jomo

    Your kids are laminated on the kitchen cupboards? Why didn't I ever think of that with mine? You are a genius, Maid!

    Seriously - so glad that you are making the changes that you need - take care, love.

    Jo XXXXXXXXXXXxx

  • 06/08/2008 @ 03:14 UMxx said
    UMxx

    Oh wasn't that a lazy sentence - see I am not so fussy anymore.

    You sound quite a bit more chirpier Jo after your move... good to hear. love UM xx

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