i don't know how to tell you that i am running out of give...you keep taking and taking and taking...but the problem is you are not giving anything back to me, or to us. The only things you do are random big showy displays of affection - but they are few and far between and the value is spread thin. What i need is more little things/simple, inexpensive things but done on a semi regular basis...but you cannot see the value in expending these efforts just as you cannot see the cost they are to me when they are not appreciated. When I run out of give, I fear I will also run out of you...we will be done and you won't have a clue how easy it would have been for you to prevent it...