Comments

• 07/12/2007 @ 08:47 roze said

  

  Hello Mischief - think you are new around here - welcome. I think your brick will echo with a lot of people. Sex has a lot to do with keeping intimacy in a relationship - so it is quite a big deal if you're not getting any. Also lack of sex with a partner may signal a shift in the relationship - into that great word 'partnership' - great for maintaining a lifestyle but not so hot for sustaining a soul!

• 11/12/2007 @ 22:11 roze said

  

  Just realised i welcomed you twice on two bricks - duh! Well you are twice welcome!!

• 11/02/2008 @ 02:21 tokicku said

  

  Sorry to hear that. Im almost there as well. We are at about once a month if im lucky, I miss it but I guess she doesnt.

• 11/02/2008 @ 07:14 roze said

  

  hey tokicku - think you are new - welcome! Difficult times when a relationship starts to lose sex - that kind of intimacy is vital to keeping love alive

• 15/02/2008 @ 06:29 WhiteWitch said

  

  Hey Mischief. I've been there too. No sex in my marriage. Prob is I rationalised it in a pile of different ways and thought it didnt matter. Then one day I woke up and it bloody well did. That spelled the end of the marriage. My understanding of all that is this: without sex it isnt a marriage, it is something else: a partnership (as Roze suggests above) that sustains a lifestyle; a friendship; a habit etc. But it aint a marriage. And one day the whole thing comes crashing down. Well, that's what happened for me. Better that I should have understood this much, much earlier and done something about it. Hope this helps you to think about your situation.