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• 27/01/2008 @ 15:29 roze said

  

  Hello eternal - have not seen you around here before - welcome to Big White Wall. So he is with someone else - and he does not know how you really feel about him?

• 27/01/2008 @ 23:16 Anonymous said

  

  Hello roze, yup, i'm new! Thanks for the welcome!

  We're both single, but he's "in love" with this other girl and his ex wants to get back with him. It's very complicated...and the fact we've got history doesn't help matters.

  I just have a horrible feeling he thinks all i want from him is sexual things...when i'd like a lot more than that, even if i missed my chance last time.

• 27/01/2008 @ 23:21 roze said

  

  Have you ever talked to him about what you want? Have you just been friends with benefits? Perhaps take him on a romantic adventure - if you are prepared to take the risk of it not happening.

• 27/01/2008 @ 23:24 Anonymous said

  

  I'd like to be able to talk to him, but he's not always the most stable of people, and i don't want him having to worry about an obsessed ex-girlfriend now best friend.

• 27/01/2008 @ 23:27 roze said

  

  Are you obsessed? And why do you not want him having to worry - because you are afraid of him getting destabilised? I am heading off after this post because it is real late in my space - but please reply - and i will pick up again tomorrow. Take care e-m.

• 27/01/2008 @ 23:31 Anonymous said

  

  Not at all obsessed...I care about him immensely...i just don't want him thinking i am. He self harms and he's had a really hard time of it recently, and i'm worried it'll be just another thing for him to worry about.

  Thank you very much for the advice Roze! Speak to you tomorrow