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• 09/09/2008 @ 17:37 Mebenji said

  

  Aw Jomo,

  
  If I read your picture correctly, I too hope it won't be permanant.

  
  Would you consider PMing those you miss?

  
  ((hugs)) -Mebenji

• 09/09/2008 @ 21:09 inspire said

  

  I feel the same as you do Jomo ... something seems to have shifted here and no one is where they were a little while ago. I suppose that is life, but I'm also a bit saddened, a bit like you that people are currently absent ...
  Lots of love, Inspire xx

• 09/09/2008 @ 22:07 Jomo said

  

  It's life, Jim, but not as we know it, not as we know it, Captain!

  Yeah - them's the breaks - but we live in hopes, eh! It would be lots of fun to do a big welcome back, anyway!

  So - we keepses living in hopeses.

  Love to all, specially Swon -

  Jo XXXXX

• 10/09/2008 @ 09:18 Mebenji said

  

  I knew it - it is Swon! I am missing my sky-brother too! Do think it would be too much to pm him every day until he relents and says we win???

  -Mebenji

• 10/09/2008 @ 09:41 Jomo said

  

  Ha ha! The wild flanking PM attack! Overwhelmed by numbers, the brave Swon soon realises that he cannot outrun the lot of us, and graciously resumes his most welcome postings...

  Would it be mean and cruel to gang up on a nice bloke, but? Would that be fair? Do we care if we win by foul means?

  
  Ahhhh - but he must be able to make the choice himself, out of his own desire to rejoin rather than be messaged to submission...

• 10/09/2008 @ 11:31 Mebenji said

  

  I know, just a thought - wondering if we could crash the system; he'd have so many notifications to delete - part would be particularly mean and cruel. So, of-course I would not do it. I'd be no better than someone who send spam (oh, I wanna be mean to them, really mean - like send them all the spam ever, over and over and make them clean up corrupted computers and programmes etc...twenty years at least.
  Grrrrrrrrrrrr! (to borrow from you now).

  -Mebenji

• 15/09/2008 @ 22:30 harmony said

  

  I'm sure I saw a post from Swan somewhere this eve as I was catching up - are you two taking the credit for getting him to do the right thing and return to us?

• 16/09/2008 @ 02:51 Mebenji said

  

  Hi Harmony, glad to see you again, too.

  Yeah, Swon is around a bit still - we could implore him, beg and plead with him, but no - whether he spends time here or not is his decision; we don't have so much power to make him do the right thing, so it would be rather arogant to take credit for something we have no control over. :) Nice for one's ego as it might be!

  It's purely selfish on my part, really - I miss my friends; I fear losing people I'm feeling close to; I go abandonment issues, so sometimes I will PM some one or more of these friends I've made here, if I haven't seen them around awhile - even if they don't respond, it helps to know I can PM them; it helps me not panic, eases my anxietes for a while, and I can think during this time more clearly, rationally and understand I can't hold onto people like I own them. He, you, me, Jomo, all of us are autonomous beings.

  So all I did was PM him, tell him I miss him, hope he is well. What he does with that is up to him.

  (((Hugs))) -Mebenji